I used to think that in breaking up, there was really no need for negativity. Like, once its over, why be mad? Get on to the remembering fondly and new experiences, etc. Now I think I am coming around to the need for a clear division of properties, custody hearings and a definite, “that belongs to me” attitude. Because what you love can get used against you or taken from you and it leaves you feeling like you’re not sure what was ever yours to be loved and enjoyed. I think it is time to move on from a lot of things, so that from now on, the things I love are mine and mine only.
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